Posted by garnet71 on April 9, 2009, at 10:38:56
In reply to Re: What do you guys fantasize about? » garnet71, posted by raisinb on April 8, 2009, at 21:28:32
Hi Raisinb!
You know, it seems most everyone has some sort of issues...even the most seemingly functional, healthy people - if you get to know them better - they too reveal dysfunction and issues...it's really suprising at times what's under the surface.
I have met so many people who appear perfectly mentally healthy - then after getting to know them, having intimate discussions, surprising things emerge.
If you tend to reveal your own shortcomings (like I do) to people, they always, almost always, open up and reveal their own. People you'd least expect. There's something about human nature-- desire for connection, intimacy--that facilitates this.
Sorry your fantasies aren't positive :(( Not that mine would be considered so. I happen to have them in my car alot. What is it with me and driving? I also get anxiety attacks in my car.
I'd be interesting in hearing if other people have fantasies. Or are they just called daydreams? Maybe I'm just a chronic daydreamer.
Yeah, Raisin, don't think you have more issues than anyone else :-)
Oh--and some people's issues are so obvious -like angry people, mean people, etc., while others manifest more subtly...or in passive agressive ways..hidden..doesn't mean some have more than others. If you look beyond the surface, it's very evident. Well, I tend to be a chronic observor of human behavior. Maybe I should have majored in psychology. lol
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