Posted by sassyfrancesca on April 7, 2009, at 9:20:31
In reply to Re: Don't You Think This is WEIRD?! » sassyfrancesca, posted by fleeting flutterby on April 6, 2009, at 16:39:21
>((((flutterby Mandy))) I agree with all that Kath said. Me, too!
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> But also-- now, this is me talking-- so take it with a grain of salt please... (I feel there is a motive to everything a person does)....I agree.
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> It seems to me that he is also "testing" you to see how much crap you're willing to accept from him. He is your "dream" guy, isn't he?yes.
A lot of times "dream guys or gals" will push the limits to see how much crap the enamored one will accept, so then they can see how much(or, if not at all) a doormat someone is going to be.
He knows i am NOT a doormat; most usually when he does or says something hurtful, I let him know about it in no uncertain terms.
(not that you are a doormat-- but maybe he hopes for you to be one some day soon)
I think he knows that will never happen; I've spent my life doing "restorative justice"
I hope for your sake you won't take such behavior from anyone-- I hope that you let others know how you deserve respect, compassion and understanding-- just as much as anyone else.
Thankyou. Tonight he will hear about it. I will let him know how I felt about that and also that I know he'd never do that to anyone else. I plan to tell him he can take his jacket off (so I can drop it on the floor), or I will take it off him (LOL); he will have a choice.
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> yikes!-- is what I said offensive??Absolutely not.
I don't know...... I sure didn't intend it to be! Please let me know if I've offended you.
You'd never offend me, sweetie!
Hugs, Sassy
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> best to you,
> flutterby-mandy
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