Posted by DarkStarEtc on April 4, 2009, at 5:03:33
In reply to Re: Wanting to say Hello » DarkStarEtc, posted by obsidian on April 1, 2009, at 21:50:08
> Hi!
> Well I'd really like to hear about why he sucked
> because I want to figure out what good t's do
> nice to meet you,
> sidHello Sid-
Where do I start?!
Right from the very first session, when I followed her into the room- she sat down and stared blankly into space, and waited for me to begin. I didn't know what to do, so basically just floundered around. That pretty much set up the pattern for all our sessions.She was hung up on Freud, and kept going on about transference issues; she'd suddenly ask, "and how do you see 'our' relationship in this context?" when I was talking about something that was important to me... it used to confuse me, because I wouldn't see that it had anything to do with her whatsoever.
She was detached to the point I felt like I was talking to a hologram at times... it was so tediously BORING, that was the main problem. I just sat there going 'blah blah blah', while wondering how on earth it was supposed to be helping; me blathering away while she just sat there staring at me- then I'd pay her and leave feeling worse than ever.
It used to make my day when she'd call and cancel a session... I put up with it for about 5 months and quit, because I couldn't afford it anyway... paying to go end up even MORE depressed!
DarkStarEtc
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