Posted by TherapyGirl on April 3, 2009, at 20:54:20
In reply to Re: I'm back in the black hole » TherapyGirl, posted by Dinah on April 3, 2009, at 20:26:33
Thank you, Dinah. I'm going to print this out to give my T if it's okay with you.
One of the things she said to me during session 2 (and the only thing she said about her leaving me) was that it was important to name it. Well, I named it months and months ago. I feel like I'm way past that point and that, too, is less than helpful right now.
You are right about the huge holes these two people leave me with. I was counting on the best friend to distract me from the loss of T. She is one of the few people in the world I (used to) feel completely safe with. So I'm not saying I can fill those holes, but you are completely right in your assessment.
Thank you for taking the time to write this to me.
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