Posted by Dinah on April 2, 2009, at 21:43:58
In reply to Re: Anniversary tomorrow » backseatdriver, posted by raisinb on April 2, 2009, at 19:27:10
Thank you!
I'm not entirely sure what's going on.
My history doesn't support the idea that once I feel secure in someone's affection, the relationship means less to me. On the contrary, I usually wallow in safety and good feelings like a pig in slop. But then I don't usually pay for my relationships....
It did occur to me though. Why is it that just as I truly feel cared about, I suddenly stop feeling as attached? I *love* feeling cared about. Is it that revolting "growing" thing? I hate growing.
I really hope I'm just in a mood and that it passes.
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