Posted by obsidian on February 20, 2009, at 20:00:28
In reply to Re: I feel really needy right now...., posted by lucie lu on February 20, 2009, at 14:01:06
I once told my T that I wondered if he saw me because of guilt, because he knew I was attached and that it would hurt to separate..he said "Do I seem like someone who operates out of guilt?", and I suppose I do respect that he can make his own decisions, and that I don't have to be responsible for him.
I do feel a certain responsibility to "get better" though, that that is part of the bargain. So, I wonder if I frustrate him, or if he just gets that "lost cause" or "whatever" sort of feeling with me.
Like the way you might watch someone make bad choices, and know that you can't change it.
thanks lucie :-)
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