Posted by garnet71 on February 17, 2009, at 16:58:20
In reply to Re: Transference and Counter-Transference?, posted by Phillipa on February 17, 2009, at 12:52:30
Phillipa!
I'd like to think of it a soul connection rather than transference.
"I broke the rule and ever since the guilt is overwhelming."
Following rules is not virtuous. We all have to follow rules to live in society, but you know what, in the suburb where I live it's against the law to back your car out of your driveway. Thousands back their cars out of their driveways everyday here. Does that mean they are wrong, bad, or criminal even though they broke the law?
While that rule may be there for a good reason, that does not mean if one breaks it they should feel guilty. How did that end your career in nursing? Couln't you go to work at another facility?
Don't beat yourself up about it. Love conquers all--right??
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