Posted by HappyChaiTea on February 16, 2009, at 3:56:07
In reply to I am feeling really sad now, posted by HappyChaiTea on February 15, 2009, at 21:33:58
WEll actually I am not going to go anywhere, I haven't done anything wrong, I have been totally upfront with my T about everything and she supports me. What my T did was wrong and thank you to those who supported me on this thread and elsewhere.
Jammer, I am not sure what all this inferring is about, I HAVE BEEN COMPLETELY CLEAR, on that I talked to my T about EVERYTHING. Plus the way I am handling my ex-T is FINE according to her, and hence my posting this in the first place.In fact she hopes I express myself even further.
I was looking for some support that agreed with my T, that the situation was NOT MY FAULT. This post was not to be a judge and jury on the perfect way of handling a unethical therapist, it was for support. Having I been through enough without having to also defend me and my T?
Inferring that I am not being honest with my T has me feeling put down, hurt and feeling unsupported. I tell my T everything, I have a good relationship with her, a healing one. Can anyone else imagine how this feels to be told this?
All I am looking for is some support, I have been trying really hard in therapy to overcome my obstacles,(we all have them, don't we)I just don't understand why you think I don't tell my T everything and that I am not handling my ex T in a healthy way, because my T tells me I am, and she knows everything. I have said this several times, so just what is your point in bringing this up again and again after I already said she knows everything?
I am not going to go anywhere, it is fine if you don't agree with my T or with me in the way I am handling what he did to me, I have heard you loud and clear that you don't, but I am here for support.
poster:HappyChaiTea
thread:879908
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