Posted by SLS on February 13, 2009, at 13:18:55
In reply to I need a voice coach, posted by Dinah on February 13, 2009, at 12:05:21
This might not be my place to ask, but I am curious if you are meek when you become the emotional you. Are you reluctant to become animated because you don't think that you are worthy to talk about your problems?
Maybe you go into "depressed and helpless" mode while in a session. You would be flat and speak in a monotone voice. You would feel drained of energy, perhaps even before getting started.
For me, I can see that happening when I am not in touch with my emotions and the thoughts that provoke them. I'm numb. It's like I'm not able to express what is really going on with me because my problems seem too large and tangled to penetrate. I feel as if I'm not going anywhere. I speak monotone when I am doing the same thing over and over, even if I am using different words. I think it is a sign of being stuck.
I was a real mess when I was younger. Not so much anymore. At least that's what my ego wants to believe :-).
- Scott
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