Posted by lucie lu on February 11, 2009, at 17:04:44
In reply to Re: thank you all, posted by antigua3 on February 11, 2009, at 6:49:56
> While getting better probably does, in reality, "hasten" the end of therapy, you're not going anywhere any time soon. You won't leave until you're ready and worrying about it now is something maybe you should discuss w/your t. It means something to you--getting better may be equated with the separation, or abandonment perhaps?
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> It doesn't have to be that way. Actually, I don't think it does, at least not for me. I see the end in some ways and I recognize that there will come a day when I won't need them, but it's actually further off than I expected. So discuss it; you may be thinking that "nope, you're not going to get better if that means I risk abandonment."
> antigua
Yes, that absolutely is what I'm thinking :( My hope is that at some point I will want to make the move myself. But not yet I guess.
poster:lucie lu
thread:879103
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