Posted by turtle on January 1, 2009, at 12:58:07
In reply to So grateful, posted by turtle on December 24, 2008, at 18:03:56
Annierose and Poet
I'm sorry it took me so long to respond, all the way from one holiday to the next! It's been a stressful week. I do appreciate your replies even though I didn't say it soon enough.
Annierose I can't imagine living where so much snow is the norm. I'm so relieved it is gone this week where I live. I think you are right that it points to the importance of the relationship. Keeping the appointment (even in the snow) was important to me, but I'm the one getting the benefit. I didn't expect her to have any of the same motivation and saw that it would be easier for her to cancel. When she showed up anyway it helped me to see a little clearer that only part of what she does is "doing her job," and the rest is in relationship territory (stability, caring, making an effort even when it is hard, etc.) It sounds like you had to think a bit about whether it was worth the risk too. I agree driving in snow for long distances can be scary!
Poet I am sorry that you missed your session. I did hesitate before writing my post because I didn't want to be insensitive to those who couldn't make their sessions. It sounds like snow is heavy this year in quite a few areas! I decided to go for it though because it felt good to share something positive as it came up. Yes, the ornament went over well, thanks for asking. Gift giving is scary!
Thanks,
Turtle
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