Posted by rskontos on December 4, 2008, at 19:36:40
In reply to Re: Final countdown with my T :o( » LadyBug, posted by lucie lu on December 4, 2008, at 16:38:46
I have not a doubt that the ending of this relationship will be a void for her as much or even more than you. NO way you have something this long, 12 years, and more than a client/patient relationship develops. I think you have changed her in as much or more than she might have helped/changed you.
I am glad to see that you have shifted this recent rupture. And it seems you two are ending on a better note than in the past. Maybe after the past 6 months a healing has begun.
I know it will be tough without her. But coming to some closure, should help going forward. In part because I have seen you deal with some of the toughest situations and you emerged standing, maybe somewhat shaky but still standing. And you are moving forward. You even stepped out of your hurt and pain to meet with your T and see if you could end it or repair this situation and you did.
This repair I believe was due to the largesse of your heart!
I think you are an amazing person of great heart and strength.
You will be fine. Please stay around. I will miss you too much.
rsk
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