Posted by rskontos on October 6, 2008, at 17:19:27
In reply to How do you feel about Therapist Disclosing?, posted by Looney Tunes on October 6, 2008, at 16:04:27
LT, mine has only disclosed when I ask. And I only asked after 10 months of therapy. I really don't want to know too much. He did not disclose much, I asked things sometimes when I am really troubled and it helps me put things in perspective. Like the discussion here about if a t should go through therapy. I never asked him but somehow one day I did. And he has, and says a good t should have therapy to really believe in it and understand it.
If my t, good too much into telling me his personal stuff I would get uncomfortable. I need him to be a t. I understand. Tell him. I would. It is hard but necessary.
Take care,
sorry you feel so bad.
rsk
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