Posted by lemonaide on September 23, 2008, at 16:57:23
In reply to Re: My session today and ?'s about what is therapy?, posted by muffled on September 23, 2008, at 15:20:19
Hi Muffy,
Thanks for posting what you did, it is something I am thinking about, hoping I am not resisting in therapy. So I will keep that in mind, I know I didn't wreak him, but I do worry about telling him what I did making him feel like he is incompetent. He is human, yes, and now yeah he does have a stubborn streak, now that I think about it it seems like a common trait among T's. lol
I did have the opportunity to tell him how much he has helped me and how I respect him a lot today. I even told him that he said he would maybe be a mentor to me during grad school and since he forgot I was going to be a T, I am sure he forgot this conversation too. His look on his face was sort of shock when I told him this.I truly think he is in denial, and I certainly can understand why. He told me today that he will remember this session forever. I didn't ask him why, but it makes me wonder. Did I hit a nerve or fear? I just don't know Muffy, it is so hard. I don't want to lose anyone right now, I have had enough of that lately. I think I will give it some more time. See what he says next week.
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