Posted by JayJ on September 19, 2008, at 16:38:47
Speaking of fantasies (which I was in a previous post), what do people tell their DH about their therapy. I know that for better or worse this doesn't apply to everyone here, but for those that have a DH who is reasonable (at least some of the time) and who asks about what goes on, what do you say? I would die if he could see some of my thoughts, and even if not that, the real conversations with T seem so personal and intimate that I can't discuss them easily (sometimes even with T), let alone DH. I try to stick with dry psychological descriptive stuff mostly, but feel I am trying to hide stuff from him, kind of throw him off my trail. It's feeling more difficult for me as the weeks go by - "dog ate my homework again". I don't know what DH senses about all this. I feel kind of guilty, but not really. I feel a bit like I'm trying to hide an affair or something, or is that too Freudian? How do other people deal with this kind of thing, or is it just me that can't feel able to talk about this stuff, other than here. I'm a pretty closed up person, which I guess is a large part of why I'm with T in the first place.
JayJ
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