Posted by Geegee on September 14, 2008, at 20:30:14
In reply to Re: Well now I've gone and done it. » Geegee, posted by Partlycloudy on September 14, 2008, at 9:49:33
It can be rough, huh? I've tried to talk rationally about this with him in the past. Honestly, I think laying into him meets him where he's at, so maybe it was a good thing. Felt good, anyway. And for me, swearing, hanging up, ranting a bit, and then letting it go has been good. He continued to go on and on for awhile, apparently. Today I found 3 emails in my inbox, two from right after and one from this afternoon. He's decided to not ever have any contact with me again. Must have hit a nerve. But hey, if contact with him always ends up the same way, I suppose it's a good thing. But oh, the projection in his emails! lol
sigh
So tippy toeing is good. Maybe we can improve to that someday down the road. In the meantime, he's far enough away that I don't ever see him anymore anyway.
Thanks,
gg
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