Posted by JayMac on September 13, 2008, at 11:39:55
In reply to Re: Want to ask T to accompany me to Mom's grave » JayMac, posted by stellabystarlight on September 12, 2008, at 21:54:30
> Hi JayMac,
> I remember wanting to ask him to accompany me to see my mom shortly after I met him, but more as a professional. Now, I want him there with me because I trust him to catch me if I were to fall.
Let me ask you this: When you are away from your T, do you *feel* him inside you? Can you feel his comfort without him physically present?
> He's been so supportive and warm lately. He actually said that he wanted to buy a blanket for the office so I wouldn't have to trouble myself by bringing one. I was very moved by his thoughtfulness.
Very thoughtful!!
> Maybe, I'll first ask him to guide me through the visit in his office, and see how that goes before asking him to spend a whole day with me!
Sounds like a great idea =)
> BTW, I wanted to reply to your "How do you ask for help" post and give you support, but couldn't put together a coherent sentence at the time. How are you doing? You work and go to school full time, right? I know that's tough.
I am doing much better, thank you for asking!! I haven't spoken with my family yet, but I figured out another way to get some extra financial support without taking on another obligation (aka, getting a 2nd job). I do work full time and I just started grad school, full time as well. So far, I'm ok. I've mostly been stressed out by all the money issues surrounding me.
Peace,
Jay
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