Posted by rskontos on September 9, 2008, at 12:09:54
In reply to Re: First appointment with new T....or not » no_rose_garden, posted by Dinah on September 9, 2008, at 8:15:13
Hi no rose garden,
I am with Dinah. My t has done this I think twice and each time I almost bolted but he instead sent the other person packing because he knew I would not come back. I felt bad but and cried but he knew I needed him and if would run, hide and never come back no matter how much I needed to be there.
That said, I am thinking it would be hard to go back if this happened the first time. But then again if you spent alot of time researching this one and feel like he might be the best one, you might give it one more try and see how you feel. It could be the right t and he just has organizational issues, like many do. You might not ever bond with him and maybe a second visit will help you not always wonder, did you do the right thing not going back.
hope this helps.
rsk
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