Posted by caraher on September 7, 2008, at 20:16:52
In reply to My husband is in therapy, posted by Tamar on September 4, 2008, at 16:55:06
(((Tamar)))
It sounds like you've been more than fair to your husband with all this. If you find yourself unable to feel a certain way you can't blame yourself for that. Even if he's a changed man tomorrow not everyone could shake off the bad things the way you'd like to, and nobody can ask for more than an honest try. And with the children there's always that much more pressure to "make things work," which I think makes it harder to genuinely make things better (as opposed to rationalizing putting up with misery).
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