Posted by WaterSapphire on August 31, 2008, at 1:19:01
In reply to I know this sound like I am a mean person but, posted by lemonaide on August 30, 2008, at 13:29:28
Do not feel bad. In such a situation, you would end up feeling worse going. Perhaps you could make arrangements some other time somehow to see him. It sounds like there are too many people there that would make this a place you do not belong at. When certain, several family members bad mouthed my husband and I , I have since withdrawn from family get togethers on a larger scale. They all judge me for my mental illness and have no idea really what is going on. They did not bother to be there for me, when I really needed them when things were so bad at home. This one time will not hurt your grandson. If you want to be a bigger part of his life, that is something you will have to figure out how to do without putting yourself in such an uncomfortable situation. Self-preservation is very important.
Have a good Sunday
Chelle
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