Posted by Amanda29 on August 11, 2008, at 15:43:22
In reply to Re: How do you know when to say when?, posted by Dinah on August 11, 2008, at 11:53:30
I can ask him, and I probably will actually, but I have found out where he lives, I have driven by..but didnt get out, I have called him on his cell...he gave me the number to use when I have an emergency...there was one time the night before I was leaving for rehab and I was freaking out and I called him at home. He wasnt there and his voice mail picked up...but after listening to the message I hung up the phone. I told him that I had called him at his house and all he said was for me to next time not do that. So I haven't.
I am freaking out about having found where he lives and I am actually at this moment waiting to see if he responds to my email I sent to him apologizing. My hope is that he will be OK with it and that that will be it.
I like to know ahead of time when I have done something wrong...instead of right when I do it. Usually with him I bring up my issues before the actual therapy session so that I can "prime" him. Not that I have to do that...He is pretty much ready for anything I have to say, but I just feel better if he knows ahead of time what i need to be dealing with.
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