Posted by Dinah on July 1, 2008, at 16:36:40
In reply to Re: Back to real therapy :) » Dinah, posted by raisinb on June 30, 2008, at 13:54:41
Well, what she said was certainly true. And while I worried and worried about abandonment, somehow what she said made it all so real for me. I had been stubbornly insisting that we would work it out somehow and put it behind us.
It's not that it happened so much. It's that he was ok with it happening. That I wasn't really on his radar with deciding to leave. That I was just a client.
Not that I didn't know that. But I guess somewhere somehow I thought that the force of my caring for him could awake a response.
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