Posted by Sigismund on June 5, 2008, at 3:42:29
In reply to Re: T is being seductive. Why? » Sigismund, posted by backseatdriver on June 3, 2008, at 13:00:43
>I wonder if he's mirroring a message *I'm* sending. I've been up front about my feelings in the transference but not, perhaps, as responsible as I should have been minimizing his arousal in the interests of the therapy.
>I was under the impression that his arousal was his responsibility, though.
I had a porno film in mind (forgive me, I don't wish to be insulting).It doesn't really matter if he is mirroring you or not. He just shouldn't do that.
And, as you say, you should not have to be responsible for his arousal.
More, you shouldn't ever have to think about it.I dunno....when I did therapy I was in my 20s and my T was a woman in her fifties, so it was different.
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