Posted by Happyflower on May 18, 2008, at 17:11:07
In reply to Re: I saw my old T today, posted by LadyBug on May 18, 2008, at 14:30:35
Thanks Ladybug,
I know you are hurting too. I even had some closure, but it still stings I guess. I guess what is so hard is the conflicting emotions I have for him. I adore him but yet I am still angry I think because he hurt me.
Please don't give up on therapy though, I found a good T now, and in a way he saved me. I told him that he renewed my faith in therapy because I was so negative about it when all this happened to me. I felt like you, I wasn't going to go through this again.
I remember early on with my new T, during an intense session where we were doing EMDR on my feelings of my old T. I yelled at him at one point, saying HOW can I EVER trust you either??? He said if I look at our relationship, he was very different than what I had before, but he still needed to get that trust from me again. It was a long road, and now I am thrilled about my T.
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