Posted by rskontos on May 8, 2008, at 22:16:56
In reply to Re: A New Understanding (long), posted by muffled on May 8, 2008, at 21:10:29
Thanks Muffled
I think you are right. I hope I have the courage to be honest about it like that. Some of us, just like to cut and run you know. Very few are adult enough to be honest but we will try to be big girls now and do the right thing.
I think I have tried the hardest I have ever at communicating with him. I will admit it isn't always something I do well, I can talk alot and say little to protect myself but I have tried with him especially lately. But with the DD he hasn't gotten it. Whether or not he has experience, he says he had alot but maybe he has just gotten too old now. WTF do I know at this point. He seems more disinterested actually not without knowledge you know what I mean.
Oh well, this just sucks too. At least for now my flashbacks are coming less frequently. Although last nights was a huge one. ONe I could really get hugely upset about if I stop and thinking about the implications of it but I am choosing to put that on hold for now.
Take care of you too Muffled, as we both muddle through this T stuff.
thanks for your kind words.
rsk
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