Posted by MissK on April 22, 2008, at 17:46:02
In reply to relationship ended w divorced man w kids, posted by danny9ds on April 22, 2008, at 14:47:57
>I have gotten him through his pain and brought him back to the point where he finally says he closed the door on his ex and was finally free.
Which is probably why he thinks of you as a 'best friend'. You're thinking it's a love relationship, he is saying it isn't or at least not more than the love of a best friend.
When a person says they want space and 'to find themselves' as a person, they usually mean they do not want to commit to a single relationship. He's allowed that if he wants, like any person is allowed that. You are allowed though to make your boundaries too then. Think about what you want from him and what he can realistically and honestly give you. Sit down and talk about what you each want from eachother.
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