Posted by Daisym on April 11, 2008, at 1:00:33
In reply to Re: just wanted to add....... » obsidian, posted by earthmama on April 9, 2008, at 22:24:05
You are not a baby. Separation is painful especially when you are tentatively attached. And I think a week is a really long time in psychological time - which in no way correlates to real time. Missing him like this really shows how attached you are. And how much you care. Those are good things.
I also write to my therapist when I'm missing him. I've found that I can hear him in my head when I'm talking to him on paper. It really helps me. It is really great that he left you two voice mails to listen to, so you have him. But I do know what you mean about making it worse sometimes.
And try to keep busy - do nice things for yourself. He comes back on Monday?
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