Posted by frida on April 10, 2008, at 8:32:55
In reply to Aaaargh...., posted by sunnydays on April 9, 2008, at 18:29:46
dear sunnydays,
i totally understand because when my t responds to an email in a short way or says something like your T has said, i tend to interpret it as "I did something wrong", but then when we talk i see everything is all right and it was just that she was busy and wanted to acknowledge my mail and talk about it together, or that she thought it was too important and didn't want to mention anything in witing....or other reasons.
when this happens sometimes i try to wait, but when i can't stand the anxiety and fear i usually call her. It's much better, when i hear her voice and we can talk for a moment everything's better.
Fortunately Saturday is not that far from you, but it might feel like a long time feeling this anxiety and fear. Maybe you can call him briefly and if he's not there just say that you'd need to hear his voice for a moment and ask him to please call you?
I'm sure it'll be okay, you haven't done anything wrong and it will be okay. And you've built trust with your T...you won't lose that.
hang in there,
Frida
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