Posted by nfc on April 4, 2008, at 15:52:30
In reply to How do you get your attachment needs met?, posted by backseatdriver on April 3, 2008, at 18:31:02
stick around your therapy for a while to build urself up and then start to give kindness to others while trying not to overdo it. it'll also depend on how u feel. whether ur up to the task or not. if u feel too needy and smother them then it might backfire. but its like give respect to get respect. alot of times ur nice to others and still they don't reciprocate so expect that too. make friends when u can. especially in therapy if possible. i found good friends in group therapy although now that therapy is done, we don't keep in touch anymore. but at the time it was great.
take care n keep us posted.
nfc
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