Posted by Happyflower on April 3, 2008, at 21:26:18
In reply to Re: Yup! My T agreed and said I was crazy! LOL » Happyflower, posted by sunnydays on April 3, 2008, at 14:29:38
Hi Sunnydays,
The humor is just who I am and when I am feeling good I really am very light hearted free spirited.
We talk about resistance quit a bit because since I am an overachiever like him I am always critiquing myself after therapy and how well I do or not. We both know when I resist because I will change the subject many times to divert. But the humor part is just the real me.Believe me normally I am in tears and shaking so hard because I am going through some traumatic stuff. This therapy is a lot different than my last. I am totally myself with him, I don't even wear makeup and I think I have worn the same 3 outfits for the last 6 mo. lol
I wasn't laughing about his comfortableness with confidentiality, I was laughing because he thinks it is incredible on how much I can read people and know when they are lying. And my memory is very good at what people say etc. It used to be used for my survival but now He said this insite will be very valuable when I am a T. He wasn't uncomfortable at all, he was amazed if anything, he was laughing the whole time. He said, I can see I am not going to convince you otherwise. lol
I guess with my T, he treats me more like an equal, he is also a mentor to me in being a good T. He is mostly my T first, but yet he also brings a part into therapy with me he doesn't normally do with other clients. He tells me this, we talk a lot about tranference and all that good stuff.
But the humor is just who I am, I am a nut, truly but I am told my spirit is a lot of fun to be around.
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