Posted by Daisym on March 20, 2008, at 23:11:48
In reply to Re: No Hugs for me » DAisym, posted by Dinah on March 20, 2008, at 20:14:28
I'm not sure what you mean Dinah. More levels? I'm absolutely certain that he never makes decisions lightly or with out a great deal of thought about what it will mean or how it might come up and need to be dealt with. It isn't that he did anything wrong or harsh - it is the reminder about the very real constrictions and limitations of this relationship. And I guess in some ways it is about rules that I have no say over. And maybe it is even about the parts of him that I clearly don't know and never will - what are his fears or insecurities here?
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