Posted by sassyfrancesca on March 10, 2008, at 9:08:05
In reply to want to sleep with therapist, posted by moonlightsonata on March 10, 2008, at 0:31:29
Of course she wouldn't think you are a "monster"----it is normal to have deep, powerful feelings for people who care about you, etc., etc...if she is well-trained, she is familiar with those kinds of feelings, and well able to deal with and talk about them. It might help you to talk about your feelings with her, if you feel safe.
On the other hand, I've been in love with my t 5 years, and we have discussed it in depth. We are very open with each other. He knows (LOL) in great detail how much I love him and that I would like to make love with him. I could write a book on what has happened between us.
As a matter of fact I had a dream in which i said I wanted to "worship his......." I don't know how I have been able to hold back; it is killing me.
He is married and said: "If I were not married, I would probably go for it." He makes me crazy; he is in such a struggle.
We are all human, and feel what we feel. Feelings are not right or wrong; they just are....and should be honored and validated.
I would NEVER judge anyone's feelings.
Hugs, Sassy
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