Posted by Abby Cunningham on March 9, 2008, at 22:21:36
In reply to ouch, though, posted by crushedout on March 9, 2008, at 13:59:03
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> this does hurt. i think the hardest part is the disillusionment i feel. i thought my t and i had something--like that i mattered to her and that she cared about me as a therapist, and this makes me think all of it was in my head. wishful thinking, really.
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> she broke my trust. i don't know if i'm "overreacting."Crushedout, I don't think you are overreacting at all. I had the exact same feelings you have - that I mattered to her and she cared about me as a therapist. She told me she cared and she also said I was a good person & another time said she respected me.
I hope your situation with your T turns out better than mine. I feel ready to move on though and have lots of support from friends and family.
Best,
Abby
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