Posted by sunnydays on February 29, 2008, at 17:10:10
So I know this is not my issue, it's the other person's, but I keep getting ganged up on it feels like by everyone else in my trauma group. I cried almost the whole time. The leader tried her best, there's just so much tension and confusion in there. She said something about that I carry a lot of the feelings for the group it seems like, and she was trying to get people to own their own feelings. I'm not sure quite what she meant except that I feel like I am being verbally attacked over and over through no fault of my own. I talk to my T tomorrow (I hope, I don't think he was at work today so he better be there tomorrow). But does anyone have a take on it? The person has said that this happens to her all the time that people think she's attacking them. So it's definitely about her. But I just feel jumped on and like almost everyone in the group agrees with her. I'm at the point that I don't really want to go anymore except that I don't want them to win. So I feel stuck. And sad and hurt, and missing my T and I want him to respond to me, but I don't think he was there and I don't know why he wasn't there and I need him to be there tomorrow and so I hope he is.
sunnydays
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