Posted by Happyflower on February 8, 2008, at 23:14:07
In reply to RE: Used to be here - saw therapist, posted by RealMe on February 8, 2008, at 21:25:17
> Right now I am feeling very lonely and alone. I was recently banned for life from a group. Dr. Bob doesn't even do that. I was nasty to someone who in return acted in my mind in a very sadistic manner.
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****Well I think we all know you are talking about me and my group, unless you got blocked from another group just this week. hmmm, want to explain the nasty? Do we have your permission to post messages from you that have been written to 2 members over the last month, and have Babble be the judge? Is it sadistic to block unprovoked verbal abuse? Dr. Bob does block posters, and the blocks get a lot longer as each incident happens. Plus their were warnings before this, without any blocks.This has nothing to do with babble, but I don't understand someone doing this if they feel they were treated that way themself once upon a time.
***Yes, I was abused a lot, and I have learned to stand up and refuse to allow that to happen again. I have talked this incident over with my T, he believes I did what is best. He says it is best not to be friends when someone says that I am like my abusive mom, and then doesn't believe your abuses after you took the guts to disclose them, when all they wanted was some support because therapy was really rough this week, and that is what the group was for and to do it on their birthday. Does that sound like a good friend? And what provoked this? How many times has this happened in the last 2 months?
He said it is best to set boundaries and to protect myself and I did the right thing. I am not sure why this is being brought up here anyway, it has nothing to do with Babble, but since you asked, here is my responses. If we applied Dr. Bob civil rules to what you said were "nasty" comments and applied his formula, to the amount of times, how long do you think you would be blocked on this site? As far as being blocked for a lifetime, I never told you that.
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