Posted by raisinb on February 5, 2008, at 19:45:23
In reply to Delicate Topic may require a trigger for some as s, posted by Phillipa on February 4, 2008, at 12:38:05
Phillippa, I don't think you need to feel weird. From all the people I've been close enough to to know about their sexual quirks, I think it's weird *not* to have some issue with sex, whatever it may be.
I tend to get a lot of physical pleasure out of it, but I can't connect sex and intimacy. I often use it to *avoid* real emotional connection, which is painful and scary for me. I have had great sex with lots of people, and I've loved a few, but it doesn't seem like the twain shall ever meet. That makes me sad when I think about it.
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