yo, Dinah

Posted by raisinb on January 12, 2008, at 15:19:07

In reply to I sometimes feel so unhelpful here, posted by Dinah on January 12, 2008, at 12:21:38

I wanted to say that your above post to TG's thread about the end of a relationship helped me very much. For me, it's really easy to make the lack of a partner a symbol of how I'm worthless, how I'm not as good or lovable as other people. Your post reminded me that what I need is something I need to work on for myself, not something someone else can give me, and that a relationship can't make me happy or more *me*.
So, that's my .02. Everyone has wisdom to give, especially you, I've noticed.

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I sometimes feel so unhelpful here Dinah 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Dinah Phillipa 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Dinah annierose 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Dinah muffled 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Dinah Poet 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Phillipa Dinah 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » annierose Dinah 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » muffled Dinah 1/12/08
yo, Dinah raisinb 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Poet Dinah 1/12/08
Re: yo, Dinah » raisinb Dinah 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Dinah Kath 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Dinah star008 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Dinah LlurpsieNoodle 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Dinah Raindancer 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Kath Dinah 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » star008 Dinah 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » LlurpsieNoodle Dinah 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Raindancer Dinah 1/12/08
Thank you everyone Dinah 1/12/08
Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » Dinah TherapyGirl 1/12/08
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Re: I sometimes feel so unhelpful here » antigua3 Dinah 1/14/08

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