Posted by Daisym on January 9, 2008, at 22:37:37
In reply to decisions decisions, posted by star008 on January 9, 2008, at 22:13:38
Sounds like a rough spot to be in. Sometimes our best intentions backfire. And sometimes a person isn't ready to hear anything practical as far as advice goes. Even carefully worded support can misconstrued. I guess all you can really do is come from a sincere, heartfelt place and hope your help is received as you intended.
All we can do is our best and try to keep the perspective that a hurting person is apt to be touchy and even hurtful as they work through their own pain.
I don't know the specifics of the situation but keeping your own counsel for awhile sounds wise.
In the meantime, take care of yourself.
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