Posted by muffled on January 5, 2008, at 15:41:06
In reply to Re: Did I miss the boat? » muffled, posted by Dinah on January 5, 2008, at 15:19:11
> Again, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to make trouble for anyone.
*not for me, for me discussion is good.
> And Muffled, I think I understand better now that it isn't disrepectful for you to call them peeps. Thank you. That was what was upsetting to me, since respect is a big issue with me. But I see better now that it isn't meant disrespectfully or glibly when you say it.*again sorry,the written word can be a challenge...
Thank you for understanding.
I of course respect my others, cuz to not do so would not promote much inner peace now would it! Which isn't to say ther's issues, but...
> Respect isn't something that is easy to come by in the circumstances, you know? So often (and I'm not talking about here, but with the "experts") it's either a lot of drama or a lot of mocking and disbelief. And rarely quiet dignity. That's why I love my therapist for being so calm and matter of fact.*Oh its a nasty thing. All the controversy over the whole thing. In my research I have been to many sites that are so innappropriate. The net is a dangerous place.
My T is SO calm too. She just keeps accepting me...
I feel so much shame still, or some do, about this splitness of mine. We have spent all our life hiding it very carefully. But as for having 'others', I still feel that all have them to some dergree or another. But LOL that is just MY opinion!!!!
> And I guess it's why I continue to see him even when I'm doing well. Right now I wouldn't even say I have a dissociative "disorder" because it really doesn't cause me distress. But were I to no longer have my therapist, I can see where it could become a problem again.*I'm glad you have a T thats helps Dinah.
FWIW I certainly respect you.
Thanks.
M
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