Posted by kezia on December 12, 2007, at 9:50:15
In reply to Re: Won't go upstairs in my house or write on paper » star008, posted by Phillipa on December 11, 2007, at 19:13:14
Maybe you need to look at this from both your pdoc's and therapist's perspectives. You say that your pdoc says do whatever you want. I have read many of your posts, and, frankly, to me it seems like you go in to see your pdoc with a med in mind (after googling and reading Pbabble), and you insist on the med, regardless of whether they think it would be a good fit or not. Then, you fill the script and don't take the med (or you take it for a few days and decide the side effects are not acceptable). I can see why a pdoc would get to the point of saying do what you want. You seem to have little faith in any pdoc you have seen (how many has it been in the past couple of years - 5?). Same with the specialists (weren't you seeing a top notch endo at one point?). They are all "quacks". I think until you address your fear of meds or perhaps your fear of getting well, you will probably have a hard time finding a pdoc or a therapist that you will find suitable. Neither are there to do everything you want. Sometimes they need to challenge you. Sometimes they need to push you to overcome fears and insecurities and controlling behaviours. If you just want someone to talk to who will agree with everything you say, then save your money and join some kind of a support or social group because any pdoc or therapist worth seeing is not going to bow down to a patient's every whim.
Just mho.
> Star especially since she was already aware that I would be e-mailing her when surgery was set-up and she knows the pdoc I'm seeing says do whatever you want. So I guess I'm my own therapist and pdoc. Probably do a better job. The ob-gyn doc just called and a conference call him my husband and me on all the proceedures he is very compassionate and thoughtful. We'd given him a Christmas tie and he remembered and thanked us. He didn't forget. I correspond with an old babbler who stopped his therapist as he thinks they are cold and only want your money. His words not mine. I see her one time before the holidays. And probably will be the last time. Still liked the young girl I clicked with. Phillipa
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