Posted by star008 on December 6, 2007, at 16:53:33
In reply to Medical malpractice by psych nurse?, posted by dancinbillie on December 6, 2007, at 16:31:00
Sorry for all your trouble. From reading what you wrote it seems that the RN violated some boundaries by becoming to close to you..the other staff members noticed and put a stop to it but not before you were feeling attached to her. She got scared and perhaps built thngs up in her mind?
Did you violate any boundaries with her? Myabe she wanted to get close to you but when you returned it,. she was afraid?At this point it sounds as if she is the one with the problem. Seh doesn't want to see you so I would let it go even though it would settle things down in your mind. Maybe she knew she screwed up by encouraging the closeness and put it on you so as not to look bad in front of her peers?? Why would she accuse you of thnking about her and masterbating?? Isn't that a huge assumption to make? It is actually a bizarre thing to think.
YOu need to totally leave her alone as this one is not going to get any better.. You are dealing with her issues and I think the more you try to reach her, the more she will think you are after her. Maybe you could find somewhere else to go anyway?? That place would be awfully uncomfortable to return to after what they think you have done to her.
I might be way off here but I think you obessed the way alot of us obsess about our T's and it takes quite awhile to get over it. She got close to you and then hurt you and I am sorry that it happened that way..
Hope something I said will help u
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