Posted by Dory on November 6, 2007, at 17:44:17
In reply to Re: what's wrong with this guy?, posted by rskontos on November 6, 2007, at 9:08:10
"are you saying you cant be helped and he should stop trying. Is that what you believe?"
yeah, that's pretty much exactly what i believe. i don't understand why he hasn't stopped already. i don't understand why he can't see how hopeless it is.
i want to know why he does this.. other than making a living. i want to know why he has snot told me to leave.
i talked to him this morning.. he returned my panic call from last night. Sh*t is hitting the fan and i need the support. He was more than good about it... he said something he hadn't before, and it means a lot to me.. he said "..call me again if you need to." He has always allowed me to call, but this means he recognizes just how hard things are right now... he constantly surprises me
he says he likes me. He says he thinks i'm funny and he finds working with me interesting.. he says i present some interesting problems to solve.. i don't understand him.
all i know is how other people react to me, or me to them... he isn't acting in those ways. Why not?
you're right.. i do worry. i don't think he would hurt me on purpose.. i think i will tell him explicitly that he needs to be very aware and careful of using what i told him
i'm cancelling Thursday... and going back to once per week. i do need him, but i just can't do things this way right now. It's too much for me, and it's a bigger financial risk..
poster:Dory
thread:793550
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