Posted by antigua3 on October 31, 2007, at 6:42:07
In reply to struggling w T caring, posted by Dory on October 30, 2007, at 22:36:19
I know it's so hard. So hard to trust that this person isn't going to hurt you, and so hard to accept that you can't have what you want. But keep working at it, and you will discover something that is better than what you wanted. You will discover yourself, and you will have the support, love and caring in a way that is most helpful to you. that is what I hope for you. It took me years with my T, and I'm an entirely different, stronger person and I know it may sound so unbelievable right now, but you will learn to carry him with you--and sometimes, at least for me, that has been the best gift of all.
Keep posting; keep sharing and opening up with your T.
all my best,
antigua
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