Posted by B2chica on October 11, 2007, at 12:52:22
In reply to i've now despise this website and the crap posted!, posted by Scentedgarden on October 11, 2007, at 12:40:53
i am going to hijack this thread a bit and turn a negative insight into a positive one.
it's interesting that sometimes the posts seem about similar topics...but the funny part is, is that is Exactly what's needed.
i mean 5 months ago people were probably talking about anger outbursts or integrations and i may have bi-passed them because then didn't pertain to what was happening in the moment to me.
now, that's all i can seem to focus on because it is affecting me in my life right now.and of course you see common threads about dealing with T transference and things...because it happens to different posters at different times, and we all need support from others with experience. or to feel that we are not odd, or unlovable.
and about the "mememe" thing. its SO true that we post about ourselves and our worries and fears and pain. but that is SO what we need here. most of us (though i don't want to speak for everyone) never really had that growing up..or even in our current lives. and here, here we find comradere, and compassion and understanding.
people that can say, yes, you infact ARE hurting quite badly and i understand and its ok to feel that.
and that's pretty much what therapy is. it is initially a selfish thing...but how can we possibly the best mother, sister, daughter, friend if we can't be the best ME.so lets work on our ME's.
lets talk about things Over and over until its out of our systems.
and lets do it with others who understand and care!b2c.
poster:B2chica
thread:788495
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