Posted by Poet on October 9, 2007, at 9:08:59
In reply to So...some thots.., posted by muffled on October 8, 2007, at 23:16:38
Hi Muffled,
When I don't feel like talking, my T always says "it's your session, what do you want to talk about?" So I think if you do go see your T, talk about what you want to, need to and are comfortable saying.
You wrote: why TF we talk to HER? WHO IS SHE? She a person, noboddy magic, nobboddy gonna make it all better.
Now we know what goes on we can watch for each other so there. T just simple, she DON"T EVEN KNOW BOUT HER "OTHERS". Bet she got 'em. I reckon as how ALL do.I think everyone has "others" too. I'd like to see my T get angry. She sits there so calm and laid back. I'd like to see the real T sometime, but that's probably a boundary. I wonder if when she shuts her door behind me if she starts hitting something? I know she doesn't scream, I'd hear it.
Let your T know you're angry, nothing wrong with a session on anger. Maybe throw a pillow at her. Last week I threatened to throw my shoe at her, but she said pillows only. I'd have better aim with something solid, pillows don't have much impact.
Take care of all of your parts.
Poet
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