Posted by RealMe on October 7, 2007, at 20:20:09
In reply to Re: Oh Man I do dumb stuff sometimes!, posted by rskontos on October 5, 2007, at 11:50:03
Well my T before the one I have started charging me for emails. He told me he would not respond to my emails, and so instead he started charging me; no warning; he also started to charge me for my journaling I gave him. Plus he started to charge me for the phone messages I left him. I decided to give him the boot for that and for other reasons.
My current T lets me email him but does not always respond. Sometimes he will respond with See you Tuesday so that I know he got my email.
LadyBug; though you said you did not want to talk about it all in therapy with sending the article via email, the relationship with a T is reflective of how we get ourselves into hot water with others. So, it is extremely important. I see that with my T too. He has commented on how I respond to him as if he was my mother or alteratively as if he was one of the people who abused me. What goes on between a therapist and patient is very important, and I catch myself now and then knowing I am misinterpreting my T's intentions and message. I used to be the Queen of that sort of thing years ago. Got to go now. Take care LadyBug and rskontos.
RealMe
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