Posted by Happyflower3 on September 25, 2007, at 16:12:42
In reply to Re: Therapy » Happyflower3, posted by annierose on September 24, 2007, at 16:56:23
I know that you understand your relationship with your T, but mine like everyone else's is different. I did have an outside relationship with him outside of the office, although not a major relationship.
I didn't use the word we, because it would be poor english. Plus our relationships with our T's do go both ways. It doesn't exhist in a vacume.
There is counter transference and transference too.I know he is avoiding me at the gym, sure there is an outside chance I am not the reason. But if someone has been going to this gym for over 5 years very regularly, and all of sudden stops, especially when our relationship had trouble, it is very likely he is not going because of me. In I am sure there is an connection between the two. In my last session with him, I told him my new T said I needed to distance myself from him.
I really don't feel like defending my relationship with him or my choice of words that I use when I post. I just posted because I am going through a very hard time, and need support. I almost regret even posting about this, it seem like how I am feeling totally got lost. I am in pain and I need some support. I would like to have some compassion. I miss my T so much.
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