Posted by DAisym on September 24, 2007, at 20:49:15
In reply to Re: To everyone, posted by Daisym on September 24, 2007, at 1:43:07
I'm not sure I understand - are you saying that memories that are split off are not accessible but if they are repressed they might be? Sorry, it has been a long day. It seems to me that no matter what term we put on it, the memories stay out of reach - we can't see it or make it known to us in a conscious way.
And about planted memories. Yes, there were a few cases but that was 20 years ago now. Most therapists are well trained to not do this, and to not lead or push. Since csa victims were so often made to feel powerless, the last thing you want in therapy is to take their power. I know you know this.
Every time the subject of repressed memories comes up I think to myself - why would anyone make this stuff up? I wish everyday it wasn't my history. Some days I convince myself that I am WRONG. Anyone who knows the shame of it, who has felt the fear of telling -- they know what I mean.
I know you do too. This is just a hard one for me.
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