Posted by JoniS on August 29, 2007, at 7:28:29
In reply to are handshakes goodbye wih t acceptable?, posted by widget on August 29, 2007, at 1:52:31
I think sometime in the past several months I was wanting the same thing. That physical touch was a big desire. I never did talk to my T about it, the desire just subsided. I wonder if you could just ask him if it would be ok? Of course, he will probably ask you why that is important to you... and then he may go into the "boundaries" talk. but if you can hear that - take the risk that it MAY happen but it is NOT a rejection of you in any way, then go for it. You know it's a risk but if you get what you want, it's awesome.
Good Luck
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