Posted by zazenducke on August 20, 2007, at 11:39:15
In reply to Why is asking about hobbies uncivil? » Dr. Bob, posted by zazenducke on August 20, 2007, at 8:30:47
What sort of therapy would help to understand Babble rules. Or would therapy help me realize I am not wanted here?
Seriously did any of you feel supported that Bob blocked me for 3 weeks for this-asking if he had any hobbies besides Babble? At the same time an ad hominem attack on another poster is merely PBCed. I know some of you say you feel "safe" because of Bob's rules. I feel creeped out myself.
Is it more psychologically healthy just to ignore his behaviour towards me and others? I find it hard to do that. I know many of you are psychologically sophisticated and I would like to know how you deal with this sort of thing rather than rehash the inequities IF ANY (babble disclaimer) which has been done for years on admin.Would you keep taking part in something which you believe is not fair to some participants? I do but I wonder if it is healthy or ethical to do that?
I would appreciate your thoughts on this. Thanks
>Why is asking about hobbies uncivil?> I was raised in a culture where that was quite acceptable. Please consider adding this prohibition to the faqs.
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> Did you feel put down? If so I am sincerely sorry. That was certainly not my intention.
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> Your friend
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> zazenducke
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> > > Bob do you have any hobbies besides Babble?
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> > Please don't post anything that could lead others (including me) to feel put down.
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> > But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person.
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> > If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:
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> > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
> > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce
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> > Follow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
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> > Thanks,
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> > Bob
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> > PS: According to the new formula:
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> > duration of previous block: 1 week
> > period of time since previous block: 1 week
> > severity: 2 (default) + 1 (uncivil toward particular individual or group) = 3
> > block length = 2.93 rounded = 3 weeks
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